Posts under ‘Overbooked’

Life inside and outside the walls

Nora Ephron on living, loving, and leaving NYC:

“Whenever you give up your apartment in New York and move to another city, New York turns into the worst version of itself. Someone I know once wisely said that the expression “It’s a nice place to visit, but I wouldn’t want to live there” is completely wrong where New York is concerned; the opposite it true. New York is a very livable city. But when you move away and become a visitor, the city seems to turn against you. It’s much more expensive (because you have to eat all your meals out and pay for a place to sleep) and much more unfriendly. Things change in New York; things change all the time. You don’t mind this when you live here; when you live here, it’s part of the caffeinated romance of this city that never sleeps. But when you move away, you experience change as betrayal… You’ve turned your back for only a moment, and suddenly everything’s different. You were an insider, a native, a subway traveler, a purveyor of inside tips into the good stuff, and now you’re just another frequent flyer, stuck in a taxi on the Grand Central Parkway as you wing in and out of La Guardia. Meanwhile, you read that Manhattan rents are going up, they’re climbing higher, they’ve reached the stratosphere. It seems that the moment you left town, they put a wall around the place, and you will never manage to vault over it and get back into the city again.”

Nora Ephron, my oldest gal pal

I like older people, and I don’t mean geriatrics that may bequeath me large sums of money or moth-eaten stoles. I like older people who have more experience than my peers and me and generously offer the biased roadmap they’ve scribbled in perilous attempts to navigate potholed adulthood. When you’re older, I think you’re more comfortable believing you’re right. Or certainly less shy about coming right out, pun intended, and saying it. Younger people don’t want to step on too many toes or be arrogant, so there’s a lot of relativity in everything. Is that shirt red? Well, some people might say it’s red. Of course, color-blind people - who are just as good as non-color-blind people can’t determine if something is red at all. Or you know, burgundy, which the shirt might also be.

Nora Ephron, my oldest gal pal

Eat Pray Love


I’m always pleased when a particular book rides the waves of popularity and becomes a ubiquitous fixture of public transportation, drugstore check-out shelves, and the media. I’ve never read the Harry Potter series and probably never will (I find most fantasy novels difficult to read), but I love how some kids who otherwise hate to read, waited hours to get the last enormous book.

Same with The Da Vinci Code. I have no desire to read it, mostly because I don’t think it will blow my mind. I remember this particular Valley Girl-ish co-worker back in college who swore Dan Brown, “Like, totally changed my life! Really! You should, like, borrow my copy!”

I declined. Good for you, but not my scene. I’m skeptical of what lots of people purport to be great, anyway. Like Orlando Bloom. What’s the appeal? Am I the only person who thinks his face resembles a ferret’s? And that he’s a poor man’s Justin Timberlake, but with ratty hair?

Eat Pray Love

Seedfolks

While Cade devours the latest and last Harry Potter book, for which he waited over an hour in a bookstore cattle drive, I’ve finished Seedfolks. The spare and lovely children’s book about a Cleveland community garden is just under a hundred pages and my edition has Sid Fleischman’s reflections on it and his writing process. I liked this part: Seedfolks

The perks of being a bookworm

The perks of being a bookworm

Rapture

Yesterday, I read Susan Minot’s Rapture, a book about what two people in an on again-off again relationship are thinking while engaged in a sexual act. Some people think it’s depressing, because the couple is clearly not in love, nor in a healthy relationship. I think it’s really well-written and true to life. Here are some excerpts:

Rapture

Books on my mind

If books truly are the “children of the brain,” as someone once said, then I haven’t mommy blogged in awhile. (Hey, maybe not quite my children. But someone’s children, right)? Because I’m swamped with job hunting, tutoring on the side, and finishing the school year, I haven’t been reading a book each week. I’m currently reading Lovemarks: The Future Beyond Brands in preparation for the new job - a book which really isn’t that dull and even has large font - but I can’t read more than ten pages at a time. Too many other things beckon me. The dishes curse under their breath about my not having washed them. The clock whines to be heeded. My bed holds me down and won’t let me sit up.

Books on my mind

Four on 3/5/2007

I’ve been meaning to do some kind of media entry for awhile, but I’ve been spending most of my time and energy being antsy, scrambling around at work, and of course, dutch oven-ing myself. (That’s for Stacey). 1) is really long-winded, I know, so you may want to wait until you’re at work to read it.

Four on 3/5/2007

The right wrong person

This excerpt is supposedly meant to contribute to a book that is an ironic, existential parody of the self-help genre. I, however, think it’s right on: The right wrong person

At the Norah Vincent reading

At the Norah Vincent reading